Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. He said to me in a group session: Going to jail was the last straw. Leeming's filling in that space forces me to revise my hypothesis that Baldwin identified with both David and Jonathan.
The author then analyzes why the man chose to walk home and resent it. On répond "oui, je le veux" parce qu'on se dit que c'est la chose à faire. The researcher asked each man whether he himself had been sexually victimized as a child.
Mais à la longue l'autre va s'y habituer, donc s'en lasser et en vouloir plus, ou de la nouveauté, à moins de se sentir envahi. The abuse of women sends shock waves through the lives of children as well. So now he really has this thing against women.
Bancroft did not did start out with this assumption, by the way, but came to it after years of working with abusers in mandatory counseling groups. Les années n'y sont pas totalement absentes.